How To Tell A Sugar Daddy What You Want

If you’re new to the world of sugar daddies, then chances are that you’ll have a lot of burning questions that you need to ask.

Most of these questions will be to do with the conversations that you have with your sugar daddy, and the best way to express your needs to them.

How To Tell A Sugar Daddy What You Want

Having a sugar daddy can be incredibly fun and rewarding, but there are also some tricky conversations that you’ll need to navigate through properly.

To find out more about how you can tell your sugar daddy just what you want, keep reading, as we take a look below. 

How Much Do Sugar Daddies Typically Pay?

Before we get into how you can better express yourself to your sugar daddy, let’s take a closer look at how much sugar daddies will typically pay.

This can be good to know as it might help navigate you through some monetary discussions that you have with them. 

It is true that there is ‘no one rule fits all’ for how much sugar daddies pay, and each relationship will be different in this respect.

But, this doesn’t mean that you should sell yourself short, and accept less money than you and your services are worth. 

Most people would agree that the minimum amount of money you should accept as a sugar baby is around 500 dollars.

This is the average amount paid to sugar babies for single visits. At the very lowest, you should be expecting 300 dollars per visit, but many sugar babies charge way more than this. 

If you and your sugar daddy are long term, then it’s best that they pay you on a monthly basis. In this case, you should expect an average of around 3,000 dollars per month for your services. 

How To Ask A Sugar Daddy For Money

Now, let’s delve into a burning question that many of you have regarding the best way to ask a sugar daddy for money.

There is no set way that you should go about this, and the time may feel right at different stages depending on your relationship. 

Despite this, we’ve compiled a list of some handy tips you can follow in regards to asking your sugar daddy for money. Keep reading below to find out more. 

1. Get To Know One Another

One of the most important first steps you must take when starting out with your sugar daddy, is to make sure to take the time to get to know one another.

There’s nothing more off putting than approaching the money question too early, as they probably won’t consider you to be polite or good company. 

As well as this, it’s also important to get to know your sugar daddy in order to make sure that you pair well with them too.

You need to make sure that you can trust this person, as chances are you’ll be spending a lot of time with them. 

The best way to get to know your sugar daddy is simply by asking them lots of questions.

Ask them about their career, their hobbies, where they grew up, just basic questions that you might ask anyone that you’re interested in. 

After asking some general questions, you can gradually shift them to discuss more intimate matters, such as what he expects from a sugar baby.

This will help you to decide whether or not they might be a good fit for you. 

For example, some sugar daddies might expect sex, but that’s something that you’re unwilling to participate in. If so, you can learn this early on and move on to somebody better suited. 

2. Talk About Finances

After you’ve both gotten to know each other a little better, and figured out whether or not your relationship needs are matched, you can safely bring up the topic of finance.

If you’re feeling nervous about bringing it up with him, don’t be, because this is a conversation that he’ll be prepared to have too. 

An easy way to broach the subject is simply by asking him about previous arrangements he’s had with sugar babies. This may prompt him to tell you how much he paid them, as well as how often he made these payments. 

You should also make your sugar daddy aware of the struggles that you’re going through in terms of money too, so that they’re fully aware that this is a business transaction.

Perhaps you’re struggling to put yourself through college, if so, make sure that you tell them. If your sugar daddy seems uncomfortable when you bring up the subject of money, this is a red flag.

They should be fully prepared to discuss these matters with you, especially if brought up politely and in a friendly manner. 

3. Discuss How You Wish To Be Paid

You should also tell your sugar daddy your most comfortable means of payment. Under no circumstances should you give away your CVV code, or any other personal information for that matter. 

Tell them whether you’d rather be paid in cash, via bank transfer, or through Paypal. All of these are safe and effective methods of payment for your sugar daddy to use.

Cash is by far the most popular method of payment for sugar babies, as it’s completely untraceable. 

Final Thoughts

Although it may seem intimidating at first, telling your sugar daddy what you want shouldn’t be difficult.

When broaching the subject of money, make sure that you’re always as polite as possible, and make sure that you’ve gotten to know them a little better first. 

If they seem keen to avoid discussions about money, this is a potential red flag, so be wary of fake sugar daddies(see also: How To Spot A Fake Sugar Daddy On Instagram).

Riley Wilson